问题描述：
Wespendsomuchtimewaitingtobelovedhopinglovewillfindusandlookingforthatspeciallove．Unfortunatelythat’snotusuallyhowlifeworks．Tobelovedyoushouldloveandrespectyourselfasmuchasyoudoothers．Inordertolovesomeoneyoushouldloveyourself．
●Stopcomparingyourselftoothers．16 Weallhavedifferentgifts．Whenyoucompareyourselftoothersforwhattheyhavewhetheritisacarahouseorajobitmakesyoufeelbadaboutyourself．Reallybegratefulabouteverythingyouhave．Gratitudekeepsyourheartopentolove．
●Practicereceivinglove．Totrulyloveistobeabletoreceiveit．Whensomeonelovesyoudoessomekinddeedstoyouorsayskindwordsacceptit．17 Knowthatyouareworthyoflove．Itisimportanttoacceptagiftoflovebyothers．Yougiveyourselfachancetolearnmoreaboutyourselfthatyouarelovable．18
● 19 Writeaboutyourexperiencesgoodandbad．Whenyouwritedowngoodexperiencesallowyourselftofeelthosefeelings．Whenyourememberbadexperiencesallowyourselftofeelself-compassion．Compassionisnotself-pitybutratherwillingnesstoacceptone'sownpainandregret．
●Stoptryingtobeperfect．Stopblamingyourselfforbeinglessthanperfect．20
Justfollowallthestepsaboveanddon'tletanyone'sexpectationsofyouputanypressureonyou．
A．Keepadiary．
B．Appreciateyourself．
C．Donotfeelsorryaboutit．
D．AlwaysdoyourbestbutnotreachingperfectionisNOTfailure．
E．Allowyourselftofeelthelovethathascomeyourway．
F．Yougivesomeoneajoyofgivingbylovingyou．
G．Everyoneontheearthisunique．
